Being apart from one’s partner for long can be difficult for so many reasons, including sex. Fortunately, there are now mobile gadgets/devices to keep the bound with our loved ones / the people we have feelings for tight. Phone sex plays a huge role in maintaining a hot relationship, especially a long distant one. Also, as lucid as it seems, it can be tough to enjoy to its maximum. What are the things you aren’t doing right? What haven’t you been doing? Check these essential steps that will be discussed practice it, and you will psychologically destroy every hindering barrier from having great phone sex chat.

To start with, phone sex is not what you should rush into, beforehand, you should observe and ensure the “vibe” for it is apparent. If you are new to it, it is imperative to start by sending nude (pictures/videos), and You may even ask. So, if the response is intriguing and positive, you can see a high spirit, you can burst into it.

1. Be calm and relaxed

Being relaxed at the beginning is vital. This not physical, so being slow and steady is very important in keeping the vibe and energy alive. After this, you proceed with the “I wish I were there/I want you here” line. This line is the trigger presser as it sets the imagery of the partner and brings the partner closer psychologically. Other trigger lines are, “Why do you want me there” “what will happen if I were there with you.”

2. The setting must be conducive for it

At this stage, when the pace is set, you should be on your underwear (you will be easily turned on) and also set up your room for it- lock the door and put off the light to free your mind from distractions.

3. Be raw and naughty

Talking dirty is the next thing to do. The dirty talks should be humorous; the vocabulary must be raw; nothing should be coded. Examples are “I want to bath in your cum” “I want to caress your whole, I need to taste you” “Babe, I wish you could feel the warmth of my dick/breast/clitoris. “I feel like ripping off your cloth to give you some intense sexual gratification.”

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