Many women avoid anal sex and don’t like it. But why? Rarely men think logically why women so harshly protect their anal virginity. They think it is impossible to get pregnant during anal sex, but that doesn’t mean that a couple doesn’t need to be protected. During sex, semen can get from the anal hole into the vagina. You won’t hear about that while watching some teen cam adult video shows.

There is a whole range of don’ts when having anal sex if you want to avoid serious health problems and regular visits to the doctor.

Never combine anal and vaginal sex with the same partner at a time — you risk getting a bunch of unpleasant infections into the vagina. No pleasant sensations can justify the subsequent long-term and expensive treatment.

According to statistics from doctors, people with unsuitable items in their anuses are regular clients. They come with the various things in their but holes: ping-pong balls, vaginal vibrators, fruits and vegetables, bottles, children’s toys, and other items not designed for anal sex. Such things can easily damage the intestines, cause bleeding, and in the worst case, it will take surgery to deal with the consequences. There have been registers cases where careless anal games ended in death. So thinking twice won’t be redundant.

You need to be prepared for anal sex. A woman needs to empty her intestines — on her own or by enema (you don’t need unpleasant accidents during sex). Besides, it is not only a question of aesthetics but also of safety. The sphincter is not an elastic part of the human body, and there is an increased risk of infection penetration.

If a woman does not want to have anal sex, there is no need to force her. No one’s going to enjoy it. Especially this kind of sex requires a long prelude and total relaxation. Without mutual consent, no relaxation is possible. So, if you agree to give pleasure to your partner and decided to diversify your sexual life — drink a glass of wine, kiss, caress, and make each other furious desire. When you feel fully prepared, take action. Entering the anus should be gradual, smooth, and gentle with lubricants as a ‘must-have’ requirement.

If you feel pain after entering the penis, try to relax as much as possible. If the pain does not disappear, tell your partner about it and ask him to wait. You can continue to have sex after 20 to 30 seconds.

On dry, you will never enjoy anal sex, saliva is also not recommended, just like petroleum jelly, baby creams, and other fatty substances — they will quickly absorb and tear apart latex condoms. Before anal sex, it is necessary to lubricate the anus and the male penis with a special lubricant on a water or silicone basis (but do not overdo it — the lack of oil, just like its abundance, will negatively affect the quality of sex).

Hemorrhoids are not pleasant at all, and in combination with anal sex can relapse and cause heavy bleeding. Do you need it? Besides, hemorrhoids are unlikely to make you feel good about sex. If you are afraid that it will hurt very much, use specialized pain relievers designed for anal sex. This way, people can also lose sensitivity and lose the ability to control the situation. This is dangerous as you might not feel severe injuries to the rectum and anus.

Every unusual, kinky sex should always be considered carefully, and people who want such sex should be prepared.

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